3 Video Series, LONG COURSE

The Alchemy of Sex & Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

With Robert King & Niyati Evers

Recorded Course

The more grounded we are in our self-awareness around our own sexuality, the more we can shape our erotic experiences.



What You'll Learn

Intimate relationships offer the possibility of companionship, intimacy and sexual fulfilment. At the same time, they come with a challenge:

  • How do you keep passion and sexuality alive over the years?

  • How can you have the warmth of familiarity, and the excitement of novelty and discovery?

  • How can you have freedom as an individual, and maintain a sense of togetherness and connection?

Themes for each class:

Session 1: Your Erotic Landscape

    • Becoming grounded in your own eroticism by developing a conscious relationship with your sexuality
    • Getting to know your ‘Erotic Forcefield’
    • Deepening your ability to access and ‘own’ your Erotic Potential and shape your sexual experiences

Session 2: Intimacy – Getting Naked from the Inside Out

    • Understanding the Interconnectedness between your relationship patterns and your sexuality
    • Developing your ability to recognize and work with stuck moments around sexuality and intimacy
    • Deepening your potential for intimacy and connection

Session 3: The Space Between Us – Creating an Erotic Container

  • Creating a welcoming environment for your Erotic Nature
  • Developing the Art of Erotic Communication – Skills & Meta-Skills
  • Deepening your experiences around sexuality and intimacy by creating Erotic Practices and Ritual

If we open ourselves up to a journey of growth and discovery, the relationship itself will push us to the next level and compel us to stretch beyond what we know.


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About Your Teachers

Niyati Evers & Robert King

Co-Founders at Alchemy of Eros

YOUR TEACHERS:  Facilitators Niyati Evers and Robert King are therapists in private practice in Portland, OR. They have developed an approach from years of research, along with their experience as a couple. They are excited to share their discoveries, and want to inspire and empower you to deepen your sexuality and intimacy.

They Write:

“Our approach is non-pathological and focused on developing potential rather than on solving problems. It is based on years of research in this field as well as our personal explorations. Because we are involved in a long-term relationship ourselves, we too encounter the challenges, edges and dynamics that are part of the territory of being together for a longer period of time. This became our lab and our “alchemical pot”.

Over the past eight years we have explored, deepened and enriched our sexuality and intimacy using primarily a Process-Oriented Approach: we believe there is a deeper intelligence at play in our relationship that propels us to explore our edges and discover new parts of ourselves and new ways of being and relating. We believe that relationships have their own “Dreaming”: we are always “in process” and we are always “emerging”, whether we are conscious of this or not.

Niyati Evers


Niyati Evers, MAPW, is an international facilitator who has worked in South Africa, Israel, the Netherlands and the U.S. Niyati is originally from Amsterdam. She is a trained Tantric practitioner and has facilitated Tantric Workshops throughout the Netherlands. Niyati and Robert have an international therapy practice and they facilitate workshops in the realms of communication, sexuality and intimacy.

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Robert King


Robert King MSW, Diplomate in Process-Oriented Psychology, has been a practicing therapist for 40 years. He’s been a faculty member of the Process Work Institute in Portland since 1992. He has taught both in the U.S. and internationally on a variety of topics, such as relationships, sexuality, dreams, bodywork, addictions and conflict resolution. 

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Please note that while the course will help you develop skills and learn about your style in relationships, it is not a replacement for therapy. If you are dealing with, or recovering from, sexual trauma, please contact us to see if the course is a good fit for you. We want all participants to feel safe and supported, but some people may find individual therapy a better fit.


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